101 (white) lies

Telling the truth hurts. Telling a lie hurts more so to both the speaker and the listener. The issue isn't what you say, but rather, how you put it across to the other party.

As I grow older, I may not remember what exactly others say or did to me that made me feel upset. But, I will always remember how I felt at that time when it was being said or done to me.

Now, there is some truth in this.